Tuesday, December 30, 2008

NOT prepared update

Still scary but after a nice long talk, keeping things polite as little ears still hear even from upstairs, the spouse and I got it all out there.

Seems I'm not the only one. He's been a little out of it for a few weeks, thinking many of the same things (I so won't go into detail). So, we're gonna work on it. He has issues about himself to work out just like me. Generally when we are happy with us, we are happy with each other. That's the plan Stan!

Thanks to all that commented earlier, I felt way more calm going into the "we gotta talk" conversation then I would have. I'm already in a better place than I was a few hours ago. Amazing how a heart to heart will do that.

I know everything isn't solved, but at least there is a starting off point now.

6 comments:

HermitJim said...

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step...good luck on the rest of the journey, my friend!

Ozark Momma said...

Thanks Hermit...I really do appreciate it!

MiniKat said...

The lines of communication are open. That's the best way to start figuring things out. My thoughts are with you. Best of luck.

kurtrer said...

WTF don't tell me what I'm thinking is right.

Ozark Momma said...

Hey Ben! If you thinking seperate ways, nah...to many years and such invested though it was an idea at some point during my mental/emotional breakdown.

Seems that I felt myself turning into Mom and you know that isn't a good thing. Have NO desire to become that bitter, self-loathing person that feels the need to make everyone else miserable so she can feel happy.

Things are way better today than they were yesterday.

Mayberry said...

Glad things are lookin' up. I hate the "we gotta talk" talks.....

The true danger is when liberty is nibbled away, for expedience, and by parts. --Edmund Burke